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It's hard enough to maintain a relationship when you have a regular 9-to-5 job.But when your job could take you halfway around the world at the drop of a hat, and missing out on family events is the norm, things get exponentially more complicated. There are the moments that appear when I wish and want to stay. As always, adventure changes, one grows, and what once caused so much joy can be replaced by other experiences. Because with a flight attendant, distance is nothing and then it also happens to be everything. I’m learning what it’s like to be a flight attendant dating. It makes me so happy, and so heartbroken in one breath to the next. But then, I take-off in California and land in Copenhagen, within the time frame of one-day. My heart is happy in movement– in the adventure, and I know, it’s not something that I will release easily. You and your flight attendant learn together, that patience, and acceptance are strings that must be present to hold you together, and that those strings must grow into strong cords, held in place by the superglue of trust. Have you ever had someone start explaining something to you by prefacing, “Now, don’t be offended by this, but…?” The fact that the sentence started with the thought that I may be offended tips me off to the likelihood that I probably am going to be offended.We flight attendants are some of the most fun, open minded, inquisitive, and interesting individuals you may ever meet. We are gifted a lifestyle that lets us experience so much in so little time. Like me, you won’t be able to remember if you are at Oslo Gardermoen, or Stockholm Arlanda. My heart should never be clipped of the desire to ‘fly.’ I understand my value and know my worth.
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She asked in Portuguese if I needed her to clean the room, and I politely declined as I wanted to nap.
She then looked at me, reached into her pocket, handed me a handful of chocolates and smiled. I briefly reflected on my last year of flying since I've been flying predominately international long-haul trips, and how I've been away from home for every single holiday.
Since I have been a flight attendant, I haven’t dated- at least seriously, or long-ly. With a flight attendant, or at least with me, dating becomes this ridiculous balance of where will she be, what timezone is she in, and when will I see her again? You may feel responsible for the sad, but you are not. The stupid job that takes away any control I crave. My life is more than only my airplane job, but includes my ridiculously consuming ambition.
Yes, I know that is not a word, but for this, it best describes how I struggle with getting past the first or third date. The answers are confusing, and the process probably exhausting. I tell ‘normal people’ not to date flight attendants. Well, anywhere with me is nowhere and everywhere all at the same time. You are the one that must deal with my emotions that lack of sleep and exhaustion bring. To date me, or to date anyone means accepting faults, distractions, or focus.