Dating japanese boys
However, when it comes to actually dating one, foreign girls often stumble upon cultural differences between them and the man of their dreams.
It is perfectly normal and nothing to be anxious about; these differences might actually strengthen your relationship.
In the name of research, Gaijin Pot got together three different women (UK, USA and Italy) to share their experiences of dating in Japan. Chiara: I thought that they didn’t find me attractive so I wasn’t really interested in Japanese guys, even though I was attracted to them.Rebecca: I wasn’t so attracted to Japanese men but now after living here for three years I would say I definitely am. Christa: I’ve always been attracted to Japanese men, even when I was young, so I did some research before I came here and I saw that generally they are interested but they’re very shy about approaching women so you may need to approach them.So now when I go home I immediately look for the nearest Asian guy like ‘Hey! Christa: I was with a girlfriend in Shibuya and two men approached us on the street and we went out for drinks. *Laughter* Rebecca: Exactly, each time that’s happened to me the guy has been pretty hammered.Chiara: I heard too that Japanese men weren’t so interested in foreign women but my experience is kind of the opposite.But you don’t know if they’re interested in you as a person or because of your foreignness.